It's okay to not be the person your parents want you to be.
In the era of information overload,instant gratification and superficiality it's easy to misunderstand things. However if you are curious,open and have a desire for depth then this is for you. This thought process has the power to trigger you if taken out of context.At the same time if you could see the context and the depth with which it is being said it has the power to liberate you. Yesterday I read one article on Instagram tweakindia page .And I was reflecting over that,when this perspective emerged. And it is applicable for everyone who has the good boy/good girl syndrome or to those who feels they could not be the good boy/good girl in the eyes of their parents/caregivers. As a child we have always tried to do and be what our parents want us to be to feel loved,to get their validation. And as a adult it's still in our subconscious. For a longest period of my life I wanted my father's approval and appreciation.And tried to do things to be a good daughter in his eyes. ...