Help people by not helping them
⭐You can help someone in two ways- 1.By helping them. 2.By not helping them. Strength is developed when one takes the responsibility on their shoulder. Sometimes you need to help people by not helping them and allowing them to take their responsibility to develop their strength. Know what's yours to take and what's not. With the desire to not look selfish, you take the responsibility of things which are not yours. And then you are overburdened and feel overwhelmed, stressed and resentful. Today we were practicing setting boundaries in the morning implementation call of Explorer's Club. And we were dissecting the underlying beliefs, desires and wants. Many of us have the belief that if I say no, my relationship with the other person will get spoiled. Here is the truth- It is already spoiled if you are feeling resentful towards them by saying yes when you want to say no.It is already spoiled when you can't speak your heart.When you can't be who you are- a person wit...