Dear Zindagi

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       It is one of my favourite movie.Some of the dialogues which inspires me and to which i can relate are-

1. हमारे लाइफ में हमारे टीचर हम खुद होते हैं|

2. जिंदगी में कभी कोई पैटर्न बनने लगे या कोई आदत बनने   लगे तो उसके बारे में जरूर सोचना चाहिए|

3. जिंदगी में कई सारे रिश्ते होते हैं उन सारे रिश्तो का बोझ किसी एक रिश्ते पर डालना is quite unfair.

4. जब खुल कर रो नहीं पाई तो खुलकर हंसो गी कैसे|

5. मां-बाप को उनके ऊंचे दर्जे से नीचे लाकर नॉर्मल इंसान की तरह देखो वह इंसान जो गलतियां करता है मेरी तरह ,तुम्हारी तरह|

6. कभी-कभी हम मुश्किल रास्ता इसलिए चुनते हैं क्योंकि हमें लगता है कि important चीजें पाने के लिए मुश्किल रास्ता  चुनना जरूरी है लेकिन हम आसान रास्ता भी चुन सकते हैं खासकर तब जब हम उन मुश्किलों का सामना करने के लिए तैयार ना हो|

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