Are you seeking attention negatively without realising?

We all want to be noticed and appreciated, but have you ever considered that sometimes we seek attention through immature ways without realizing it? 

This can harm how others see us.It makes them doubt our reliability. You might get attention, but the impression you're leaving is that you're irresponsible.

This kind of behavior often comes from unconscious patterns we’ve developed from childhood but they no longer serve us as adults.

As children, acting this way may have helped us avoid responsibilities or get away with mistakes.People may have forgiven you easily because you were a child, but now you are an adult,and expected to act like one.

As adults, we are expected to take responsibility, not avoid it. We’re also expected to own our mistakes. Avoiding it by being victim,makes you look childish and leads to loss of trust and respect.

If you don’t want to take certain responsibilities, isn’t it better to address them directly rather than acting immaturely? 

Have the courage to own your mistakes. Though others may be upset at first, you’ll gain respect in the end.

Wouldn't you want to be seen as trustworthy and reliable, than irresponsible,immature & childish?

Love,

Pratiksha