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 "Dont let fictional fairy tales fool you.. They are for sale..your life is not .." ...We Have Heard the stories of Prince Charming..who will come and rescue the princes from her challenges...We Have Seen the movies ,the stories of "Happily Ever After"...Music of such kind...And Unknowingly,at the subconscious level we are under influence of them...  I am not Against them..I have seen it ,heard it...been under their influence a lot... They give us Some sort of relaxation,soothes us for some time ... But ...they not the real solution for the real problems we face in real life... In fact many times things worsen because of their influence in our life since we want to compare our reality with it ,want to apply it in our real life and things don't work... How hard it may Feel  to hear or Understand... But....No one is going to come to Rescue You ..... You have to Stand for Yourself...For Your Solutions.. I still remember ,when I was in school &took part in a sto...

 There are times when you  need to consciously choose the easy path. And there are times when you have to choose the difficult one.  But you need to be  aware when to choose easy and when to choose the difficult one . I remember the movie dear zindagi in which coco has to go to some place for her career, with her ex boyfriend which she didn't want to do because she wasn't ready but she was putting a lot of pressure on herself that she need to choose the difficult path .Shahrukh ask why did she need to choose the difficult path and why she can't choose the easy one when she is not ready . when it comes to emotions you cannot hurry . Its journey of healing you have to be patient with yourself at the initial phase of healing.  You need to choose the easy path Initially but  as you move further and start healing you have to face the difficult one. because the best way to move out  is always going through . But for that you have to prepare yourself at the i...

        We Want to have a Dream house,nice car,good partner,great relationship,good health, financial freedom, the happiness,peaceful life and so on...✨✨ But ...Somewhere Deep Inside We feel i am an average person,a middle class or not good looking enough ,born in this family,living in this area,speaking this language,having this kind of education.... Am i really dreaming something that is out of my reach...may be i dont deserve it..🙄 U can only reach somewhere when u know where u want go....if u think i want to go here then u feel no may be i shouldnt because this is not for me.  one day travelling here,another day travelling the other way back...how will u reach to that point.. ✨Isn't it same for our dreams ? One day we go for our dream ,another day we feel do i deserve this why am i taking so much effort when i know this is not going to happen...this  opposite views inside of us leads us nowhere.... First When We Believe at the core clearly i derserve i...

            Have u ever met a  person , who had never got the feeling of jealousy?Everyone at any point feel jealous about someone and some are always jealous about something.                                  WHY?         Because  we have not given a thought to it ,that we are jealous and we need to do something about it.  Remember we cannot do anything about something, if we don't know that such thing exists. First of all we have to R ecognise ,that we are jealous ,when we actually are. Then and then, there is a possibility that we can do something about that. Ok we recognise   Then WHAT?                         Ask WHY?  Why am I  jealous ? 1.Comparison Because she or he is more intelligent or beautiful or smart or rich or good or so on........... than me. W...

   Why we loose motivation, to do,what we suppose to do?   i)Because we just forget,why we are doing,what we are doing.    Hence there is the role of community, which inspires us, who are working on the same goal as we are working on.Thus just surround yourself with right kind of people and avoid the things which demotivates you.   ii) The second reson for that is,we don't get instant result for what we are doing.      For that we just have to understand that whatever it maybe -want to create something in our  career,to build a new habit,to build a new value, to build health, whatever new it is. These are the physical things or the physical manifestation of what we want. So it takes time. we have to do it consistently, to have result.    Another part which we have to understand that,we have to do right things for what we want to achieve.and what is the right thing? it comes from experience.Experience of ours while working on th...

       It is one of my favourite movie.Some of the dialogues which inspires me and to which i can relate are- 1. हमारे लाइफ में हमारे टीचर हम खुद होते हैं| 2. जिंदगी में कभी कोई पैटर्न बनने लगे या कोई आदत बनने   लगे तो उसके बारे में जरूर सोचना चाहिए| 3. जिंदगी में कई सारे रिश्ते होते हैं उन सारे रिश्तो का बोझ किसी एक रिश्ते पर डालना is quite unfair. 4. जब खुल कर रो नहीं पाई तो खुलकर हंसो गी कैसे| 5. मां-बाप को उनके ऊंचे दर्जे से नीचे लाकर नॉर्मल इंसान की तरह देखो वह इंसान जो गलतियां करता है मेरी तरह ,तुम्हारी तरह| 6. कभी-कभी हम मुश्किल रास्ता इसलिए चुनते हैं क्योंकि हमें लगता है कि important चीजें पाने के लिए मुश्किल रास्ता  चुनना जरूरी है लेकिन हम आसान रास्ता भी चुन सकते हैं खासकर तब जब हम उन मुश्किलों का सामना करने के लिए तैयार ना हो|